There could be a conflict between the two members of the family. In such situations, we tend to get frustrated and agitated. We then try to discuss this with others. Such discussions could involve narrating the incidents, emotions, and actions. This kind of talk with others increases the negativity. It creates a significant level of damaging energy. It is unnecessary.
People tend to give their judgment and pass their comments. By discussing with others, we invite more comments and suggestions.
The relationship grows or depletes based on the vibrations which we give to that relationship. We need to focus on the kind of vibrations which we feed to any relationship. The direction of any relationship is on the nature of the vibration which we give. Positive and pure vibrations grow the soul’s power. On the other hand, negative vibrations deplete the soul’s power.
Do not share the problems faced between the family with others. Each person has their view to look at the problem. Some may make the problem look bigger. Some may add fear to the problem. Some may add criticism. Some may add worry to the problem. And many would share further with few other people. This multiplies the vibrations.
To discuss the problem means to enhance the problem manifolds. An existing vibration multiplies by discussing with others. Even one single problem discussed with others could lead to the opening of several other underlying problems.
Whenever you share positive news with others, you receive blessings from others. You will then invite vibration of power and positivity. This energy will enhance family unity. It also inspires others to share the power of positive vibrations around.
However, if one of the family discusses a small problem with someone outside the family then the energy will change in the house. This disturbs the energy.
So many souls around us are not empowered. One cannot share problems with these souls. Hence one has to take extreme precautions not to invite people’s opinions into our problems.
Whatever is happening with your issues in your life should not be shared with others. Do not allow the perspectives of others to be added to your issues.
Perhaps you should realize why you are sharing your problems. Is it really to find an optimal solution, or is it more likely that you are seeking affirmation, not solutions? It might be more affirming and therapeutic to just ask a friend or loved one for a hug, without discussing all of the downsides of your life. Try to focus on actually doing something to make your life better. Try to seek advice from psychologists or experts in this field.
People also share their problems to seek comfort and affirmation from their friends and family. Do not create a perspective based on one single person’s opinion. Do not also add your opinion and create a new angle to the problem. Practice the art of not bringing a single thought in favor or against a person. Try not to add to the conflict. Stay detached.
Concentrate on being kind to others, and helping others, and on their needs, and do not just talk about them, but do something in actually helping them. Then you will find some lasting happiness because you did something to help someone.Listen and care for the problems of others but without going into any depth. However, do not forget to shower them with lots and lots of blessings.
